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Ordinary Magic

by Cameron Powell

I was married, briefly.  The nature channels tell me there are penguins with longer relationships.

By the time a judge brought down the curtain, my mother and I were six thousand miles away, standing at a waystation on a yellow-arrowed path, like characters in some 21st century update to the Wizard of Oz.  My mother wanted a cure for her cancer, or at least a break from “all the cutting and poison”, as she put it.  I hadn’t believed there were any answers for my uncertainties high on the wild-dog-infested and wind-swept spine of a mountain range in northern Spain, so I had sort of convinced myself I wanted nothing.

I stood at the foot of a high rubbled mound.  I was holding my new

Camino de Santiago start

Inge in Bilbao, Spain, days before starting the Camino de Santiago

Nikon SLR, which I’d just bought from Costco via the rationale of this very trip.  The video was on:  Mom had talked about this moment for months, and I am nothing if not a catcher, or perhaps I mean a chaser, of moments.  She was picking her way up the mound, through the powdery gray and white rocks.  My fifteen-year-old second-cousin, Carrie, had abandoned her massive backpack and was watching the scene from my left.  In a field to my right an older man, very tall, sturdy boots, backpack, was weeping.

Camino de Santiago Cruz de Ferro

Offerings left behind at the Camino de Santiago's Cruz de Ferro

The mound was pierced at its summit by a thirty-foot-tall oak post, about as big around as a telephone pole.  The very top of the post was fitted with an iron cap, like the sort of hat an English bulldog might wear, if an English bulldog had scored an audience with the Queen.  For a structure with the grand appellation of El Cruz de Ferro, an old Spanish-Latin term that means Cross of Iron, the cap supported an almost comically tiny iron cross whose three free arms ended in fleurs-de-lis.  For thousands of years, some version of the Cruz de Ferro had spied on countless pilgrims – first Pagan, later Catholic, now mostly Pagan again – as they formed meaning out of this very waystation.

For thousands of years a mound of rocks marked the summit of this mountain range.  A million pilgrims before us had built up the mound with hand-placed relics from their own private rituals of letting go:  of anger, of grief, of resentment, of illness – letting go even of the fear of death.  Because that is what people do on pilgrimages, of any kind, whether they mean to or not.  They let go.  That’s what the verb to forgive means.  To forgive others, and, harder yet, to forgive oneself.  Jesus was telling us what he knew about forgiveness, but the bastards killed him before he could show us how to forgive ourselves.

An ancient tradition held that pilgrims should bring to the Cruz, from their own homes, a small stone and a more personal item, and to leave them behind at the Cross.  My mother was now placing, among the rocks, a small stone she’d carried from an ancient canyon near her house in Colorado.  Previous pilgrims had also brought and left behind other, more telling things.  A tube of lipstick.  A postcard of Bruges, scrawled in a woman’s hand.  Folded pieces of paper and fragments of words in Spanish and English, German and Dutch, Korean and Basque.  Underwear that raised certain questions.  A Matchbox car that looked to my inner-nine-year-old’s eye like a ’68 Corvette, give or take two years.  A toy soldier – missing a leg, poor bastard – and the half-eaten cookie on which he’d been subsisting among the pebbles.

On the wooden pole itself I could make out a tacked-up orange baseball cap and a clip-less biking pedal, a gourd on a string, a black-and-white photo of a European peasant family, circa 1930s, a 1970s photo of a boy, in a shirt with blue stripes, holding a Bible, a pre-printed fortune cookie’s fortune:  Do not throw the butts into the urinal, for they are subtle, and quick to anger.  I saw a Prada label, an AC Milan futbol jersey, and a broken pair of cheap sunglasses.  A German pilgrim had erected a small German flag among the rocks.  Not to be outdone, so had a Belgian.  Or vice versa, let’s not start another war.

My mother, still with her back to my cousin and me, had reached the top of the mound.  The Iron Cross now loomed over her, standing stoutly in the wind.  She bowed her head and pulled her second, more personal offering from a pocket in her field jacket.  She cupped it with both hands and held it over her head, a modest proposal to the cosmos about what she should be allowed to let go of.   When I saw her shoulders start to shake I began to cry, too, but quietly, because I was the expedition videographer, not to mention its chief biographer, photographer, legal counsel, and practicing podiatrist.

I handed the camera to Carrie and went to join my mother.

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Find Out When Ordinary Magic is Ready

If you made it this far, you might just be someone who'd like to read more.  Ordinary Magic, a book-to-be from which the above excerpt is taken, is a kind of love story, or maybe even a couple of love stories. It’s about my mother, her battle for survival during and after my own divorce and disorientation, and a nearly 500-mile walk we took together in France and Spain in the fall of 2011. There will be recipes and best practices, blisters and cathedrals, several misguided jokes, an off-color and politically incorrect Spaniard, a red-headed and theatrical Frenchwoman, and some expert legal analysis.

 

Until the book is finished, you can still read the bulk of the Ordinary Magic manuscript, which consists of three main parts: (1) Mom's pre-Camino (June 2011) blogging on her training, and recipes, as well as some follow-ups in the years afterward (2011-14); (2) a travelogue in the form of daily blogging we did from the trail on the Camino de Santiago (Sept-Oct 2011); and (3) a memoir of the last weeks, days, and hours of my mother's presence (Nov-Dec 2014).

Read the Real-Time Blog: The Spine of the Story

After 818 kilometers, Inge and Cameron arrive in Santiago de Compostela

Mom's Training.  Here you can begin with Mom, in Colorado, after surgery in June 2011 to remove the second of three tumors she was successfully battling, as she describes her training in Colorado's Black Canyon and gives recipes, starting with "Instead of Chemo, I'm Walking the Camino" or "Musings of the Son as the Mother Lies in Hospital".  Then just keep clicking the right arrow at the top of the page to advance in time.

When We Walked Across Spain.  Or jump ahead to Europe, as the Camino commences, with "Lisbon, Part 1 of 2".

The Last Camino. This is where I left a lot of my heart, in the last seven weeks of my mother's life. I wrote in a different kind of consciousness. I don't know what I expected when I posted these entries, but I didn't anticipate readers' reactions.

Highlights

These three posts cover the biggest highlights of the Camino, and all three come with high-definition video.  Tissues are recommended.

The Grieving Tenor in Los Arcos (with video)

Mom at the Cruz de Ferro, the Iron Cross, Part 1 (Cameron version, with video) and Part 2

Mom's Version:  The Cruz de Ferro

Mom Reaches Santiago, and Gets a Surprise (video)

CaminoNotChemo's YouTube Channel

Our YouTube channelWe have a Camino de Santiago video channel on YouTube.  We're looking for help editing all these clips together with the photos into a DVD -- with music and voice-over.

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